The Reality of Generational Curses, Part 1

The Reality of Generational Curses, Part 1

A generational curse refers to an inherited curse from one's bloodline, typically transmitted from one generation to the next, often persisting for three to four generations (Number 14:18, Exodus 20:5, Exodus 34:6-7). It usually presents itself in one's life and lineage as negative or evil patterns. These patterns, whether behavioral, emotional, or circumstantial, are passed down through successive generations within a family lineage, originating from the ancestors of the lineage and resulting in adverse circumstances or recurring problems in the descendants' lives.

    Put simply, if you notice a recurring pattern within your family lineage where a majority of family members experience premature death, cancer, infidelity, sexual assault, molestation, poverty, anti-progress, setback, rejection, delay, abuse, accidents, violence, anti-marriage, divorce, barrenness, incarceration, mental illness, misfortune or similar adversities, it is likely indicative of a generational curse.

    In today's blog, we will discuss the reality of generational curses, examining their validity and supporting our discussion with scriptures. Additionally, we will provide remedies for addressing this phenomenon. This topic promises to be enlightening and transformative, potentially indefinitely altering your spiritual journey with God.

    Let me share a brief story about my journey with God. Growing up in a Christian home, I was taught to love Jesus for as long as I can remember. Like many Christians, I ventured out to explore the world as a teenager and again in my late twenties to thirties. I suppose you could call me a late bloomer, as I seemed to start everything later in life. I once believed that after I was saved, no curses could afflict me. After all, scripture says, "No weapon formed against me shall prosper, and every tongue which rises against me in judgment, I shall condemn" (Isaiah 54:17). Boy, was I wrong. The devil slapped me upside the head! Let me begin my story by sharing how I came to this realization. 

    As I entered my thirties and progressed into my late thirties, I noticed a pattern: setbacks and rejections. Just imagine five levels. I'd start at level 1, reach level 5, fall back to level 3, and start the cycle again. This pattern persisted into my mid-thirties. As each year passed and I moved into my late thirties, I found myself falling even lower, eventually hitting rock bottom. Then, I began asking questions and examining myself, especially because I work hard. 

    I faced a lot of rejection. People would love me at the beginning of a relationship, only to dislike me by the end, whether in professional or romantic relationships. This pattern repeated itself in every type of relationship I had, and even those who rejected me couldn't explain their behavior. Despite working the hardest and being the best at what I did, I never received the rewards I deserved.

   Ironically, despite being an introverted and independent person who preferred to stay away from others, people always seemed to invade my space and, for some reason, wanted my company. Faced with these persistent challenges, I realized this might not be natural and turned to God for help. I believed that only God could deliver me from this, but first, I needed to get right with Him.

    On New Year’s Day of 2015, I rededicated my life to God and decided to worship Him in truth and spirit. Immediately, I entered spiritual warfare with little knowledge and no understanding of the rules of engagement in the spiritual realm. When I say the devil slapped me upside the head, I’m not joking. For almost two years, I barely slept—only two or three hours a night—because I was tormented in my sleep whenever I did manage to rest. I dreaded going to bed, and the people of God and churches I sought help from thought I was crazy; some even distanced themselves from me. I fasted continuously just to get a little relief.

    Fear and paranoia became my daily norm. When everything that could possibly go wrong in my life did happen, I lost everything—my friendships, job, finances, marriage, and health. I became homeless and was at the mercy of a friend. That was rock bottom for me. Rejection became a daily reality, and bad luck seemed to follow me everywhere. Everything was a struggle; I had to pray for everything, or something would inevitably go wrong. This was the life I lived for three years.

    During this period, I committed to fasting until I saw change or received some form of relief. My only source of hope was God. Throughout this time, I read the entire Bible and reread the Old Testament multiple times. All I did was pray, fast, and immerse myself in scripture. Prayer became a lifeline because my existence depended on it, while fasting was a desperate attempt to gain God's attention for relief. Reading my Bible was a quest to understand where I might have been erring, as I firmly believed in God's truthfulness and the authenticity of His word. Gradually, I developed a deep love for the Bible and a profound affection for God—I fell in love with God. I also realized that many beliefs I had held as a Christian were based on incorrect doctrines or misconstrued interpretations. This realization marked the beginning of a gradual transformation in my life.

   In short, I came to understand how covenants and altars apply to generational curses and their effects on my life. This revelation was a game-changer. Many Christians are unaware of the significance of covenants and altars, and our lack of knowledge often leads to unnecessary suffering. As scripture says, “But through knowledge shall the just be delivered” (Proverbs 11:9b). Another scripture also warns, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge” (Hosea 4:6a).

    The root or foundation of any generational curse lies in covenants. But what are covenants? A covenant is a pact with spirits, whether good or bad. Altars are the vehicle where these spirits can fulfill their purposes, serving as avenues for these spirits to enter our lives and influence events. For example, read 1 Kings 22:19-38 to see how a spirit influenced the events leading to Ahab's demise. 

    We coexist with spirits and are not in total control of our actions; there is always a spirit influencing us, whether it is the Holy Spirit or an evil spirit. Remember the scripture that says, "You are a slave to whom you obey" (Romans 6:16). And as Romans 6:6 states, 'Knowing this, that our old man was crucified with Him, that the body of sin might be done away with, that we should no longer be slaves of sin.' Whomever you offer yourself to is what influences you. That's why Jesus gave us the Holy Spirit, who is our helper, comforter, and advocate, reminding us of Jesus's instructions and helping us fulfill God's will. 

    On the other hand, the devil operates similarly through his evil spirits or demons.  He is the god of this world (2 Corinthians 4:4), orchestrating the system of our world to rebel against God. The only way to overcome the devil is by fully submitting to God and yielding to the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit helps us put on the whole armor of God daily (Ephesians 6:11) because, in reality, we wrestle against evil spirits (Ephesians 6:12-13). Without God's help, we are no match for them. By nature, humanity is rebellious, having inherited sin from Adam  (Romans 5:12-14). Our flesh is at enmity with God (Romans 8:7-8), meaning it is in opposition to God and naturally rebels against God's word.

    In Romans 7:4, Paul states that we are dead to the law through the body of Christ, married to Him, and expected to bear fruit to God. Verse 5, which is my emphasis, reads, "For when we were in the flesh, the sinful passions which were aroused by the law were at work in our members to bear fruit to death." Verse 6 continues, "But now we have been delivered from the law, having died to what we were held by, so that we should serve in the newness of the Spirit and not in the oldness of the letter." These verses highlight my point: our flesh naturally rebels against God and must die in order to submit to Him. The flesh is a slave to sin, which is the devil’s tool, as a result of Adam’s fall. The flesh is influenced by evil spirits.

    In a nutshell, altars are places where humans transact with spirits, granting them the legal right to operate in our lives and those of our descendants. They are also spaces where destinies are exchanged. To raise an altar, covenants must be made. A covenant is an agreement with spirits. If you have little or no understanding of altars, I recommend reading my blog posts, “What are Altars?” and “Open Door,” to gain a comprehensive understanding. Additionally, I highly recommend the book "Deliverance from Demonic Covenants and Curses" by Rev. James A. Solomon. Once you have a good grasp of covenants and altars, you should also read one of my blogs titled “Prayer to Break Evil Covenants.”

    Let me shed some light on the effects of generational curses. To make it more practical, I'll illustrate this with an example. Imagine a family where a generational curse against marriage exists. In this family, most men are married, but the women often become single mothers. Even if they marry, the relationships frequently end in divorce, and those who stay married often face turbulent relationships, ultimately raising their children alone.

    Now, ask yourself: Do you think these women want to be in these situations, especially after witnessing what their family members go through? Absolutely not, but they cannot help it. This is not a learned behavior; it is influenced by a spirit with which the bloodline has a covenant.

    Another example is addiction, such as alcoholism, substance abuse, gambling, or sex addiction. Are these tendencies inherent? Absolutely. Generational curses are not learned behaviors. While doctors, counselors, and psychologists might argue that these issues stem from the environment or circumstances, which makes sense, evil spirits orchestrate these events to ensure destructive patterns continue because they have been granted legal grounds through covenants.

    Let's return to our Bible study and examine the women married into Abraham's lineage, starting with Sarah, and then moving to Rebekah and Rachel. They all shared one significant challenge: barrenness. Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob all had to pray for their wives to bear children. This issue persisted through three generations. Given that Abraham walked closely with God, why did this affliction affect his descendants? Perhaps it has something to do with his ancestors, who worshipped idols, and the fact that Abraham married his sister, which, according to God's law, is considered incest. Such relationships are detestable to God and result in a curse (Leviticus 18:9, Leviticus 20:17).

    We will pause here and continue in my next blog post, 'The Reality of Generational Curses, Part 2: How Do We Enter Evil Covenants?' Before reading the next post, take some time to examine your life. Identify any prominent negative patterns in your family lineage and see how they connect with the persistent challenges you face. This is a crucial first step in becoming aware of generational curses affecting your bloodline. You cannot fight what you do not acknowledge as a problem. The devil uses this tactic to bind people, trapping them in an invisible prison.

    Join me in my next blog as we delve into the intriguing ways one might unknowingly or knowingly forge an evil covenant. Don't miss it! Link to part 2,  'The Reality of Generational Curses, Part 2: How Do We Enter Evil Covenants

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