Purpose Is Found in the Journey, One Season at a Time
I’m beginning to notice the changes—better yet, the growth—that I once overlooked. I see now that I am solution-oriented, a problem solver, and results-driven. I’m no longer living in negativity or seeing myself as a victim of the enemy. Instead, I face adversity head-on, seeking solutions while praying through it and choosing to delight in the learning process—even on the days when I’m crying my way through it.
I no longer take things personally, and I have a deeper understanding that I’m not wrestling against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces (Ephesians 6:12). Because of that, I know I’m responsible for how I respond.
In 2023, God gave me a clearer understanding of my purpose and the makeup of my DNA. He showed me that I was born for battle and fully equipped for it. He didn’t give me a map—only the destination. I didn’t realize then that the journey itself was part of the purpose, and in many ways, I’m still walking it.
Life taught me resilience early on. From childhood, I learned that as long as I’m alive, there is hope. Opportunity will always present itself. The key is to keep moving forward and not self-destruct by making hard moments harder.
The reason I’m sharing these small pieces of my story is to remind you that the good, the bad, and the ugly of your journey are not wasted. That’s where your purpose is being formed. That’s where your preparation lives.
And that’s exactly what we’re going to talk about in today’s blog: what God has called you to be—and your purpose.
One of the questions most people don’t ask themselves often enough is this: Who am I, and what is my purpose in this life?
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Instead, many of us simply become what our parents, society, communities, Church, and schools tell us to be.
The truth is, that question is rarely answered in comfort. It’s usually answered through life experiences—and more often than not, through adversity. That’s when the real you begins to unfold. And it can unfold in two very different ways: negatively or positively.
You’ve probably heard the saying, “Hurt people hurt people.” When someone goes through a painful situation, they’re faced with a choice. They can decide, I won’t treat others the way I was treated, and allow the experience to shape them for the better—that’s the positive path. Or they can pass the pain along, turning someone else into the next victim and making hurt a way of life—that’s the negative path.
Unfortunately, many people are shaped by the negative experiences and lose sight of their purpose altogether. It’s only by the grace and mercy of God that some of us are transformed by our pain instead of destroyed by it. Because without that grace, the reality of this world would truly be a dog-eat-dog world.
Now, whether we take the negative or positive path through our life experiences, those choices become the roadmap of our destiny. What we learn along the way is what leads us to the discovery of our purpose.
Take leadership, for example. True leaders carry influence and presence—whether they want it or not. People naturally gravitate toward them based on where God has called them. They value order, clarity, and fairness. They’re objective, rational, and principled. They often stand out everywhere they go.
Because of that, leaders are respected—but they’re also sometimes disliked. Not everyone appreciates someone who can see through nonsense. Some people feel threatened by the attention leaders command, even when they’re not trying to draw it. Jealousy can surface simply because leaders carry a presence that can’t be ignored.
What’s interesting is that most true leaders don’t recognize their calling at the beginning. Instead, they find themselves constantly in the middle of conflict, adversity, or situations that need structure and direction. And it’s right there—in the tension—that they learn how to lead. That’s where purpose begins to reveal itself.
Over time, they start connecting the dots between their passions, their gifts, and their calling. And once the purpose becomes clear, confirmation follows. People around them either speak it out loud or show it through their actions.
You begin to feel drawn to your tribe. You develop a hunger for knowledge. You find yourself constantly growing, refining, and seeking to reach your full potential—because now, you’re no longer just moving through life. You’re moving with purpose.
The leadership example I just shared is only a small picture of how purpose is discovered. Now, take that same idea and apply it to your own life.
The first question to ask yourself is this: Why do I keep finding myself in this same battle or season of adversity? Then take a moment to evaluate it honestly. How have I been responding—positively or negatively? What lesson is here for me to learn? What have I mastered or become better at because of this situation?
Ask yourself deeper questions. What do I naturally have a knack for when it comes to this challenge? Is my passion connected to it? What are my gifts—and are those gifts tied to what I keep experiencing?
These are the kinds of questions that begin the journey of purpose. And they’re not meant to be rushed. This is something you do prayerfully, with patience, remembering that purpose is revealed in process. The answers don’t always come all at once—they unfold as you walk the journey.
Adversity is a part of life, and believe it or not, it’s not a bad thing. It’s what shapes you, builds character, and equips you to carry the purpose God has placed on your life. Scripture reminds us of this in James 1:2-4:
“Consider it pure joy… whenever you face trials… because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” Adversity is your training ground—it’s where preparation happens.
God also confirms this in Romans 8:28: “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose.” And Proverbs 4:23 gives us guidance on how to walk through it: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” This is God reminding us not to take the negative path when adversity comes.
No one escapes this process. We all go through it. Every one of us has a story—and within that story is the preparation for purpose.
Life without purpose can feel almost meaningless and deeply unsatisfying. It’s like wandering through life without a destination. And because life operates in seasons—nothing is permanent—there truly is a time for everything, as Ecclesiastes 3:1 reminds us. Those changing seasons can sometimes leave us feeling restless or unfulfilled.
But purpose changes how we move through life. With purpose, we’re able to navigate the highs and lows—the heavy and the hard—with clarity and direction.
Money can certainly make life easier, but it doesn’t satisfy the soul. It’s not worth selling your peace—or your purpose—for it. Purpose, on the other hand, brings fulfillment. It gives you a reason to keep going, even when life feels overwhelming.
Marriage, children, and other life milestones are beautiful, but on their own, they don’t fully satisfy either. It’s the purpose within them that brings true fulfillment. When you understand why you’re called to love, lead, serve, or build, satisfaction follows.
You see, purpose is never just about you. It’s about others. It’s about contribution—your unique way of helping humanity. And it’s in that contribution that satisfaction is found. Joy flows naturally, and prosperity often follows as a byproduct.
When you walk in your purpose, you don’t just grow—you help others in their own journey too. As Scripture reminds us in 1 Peter 4:10, “As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace.”
This year, I want you to seek clarity about your purpose.
Start by asking yourself a few honest questions: What is my purpose in this life? Am I truly walking in it? The gifts I’ve discovered in myself—how do they connect to what I’m called to do?
And most importantly, ask your Maker—God. He will reveal it to you, often through a process. Sometimes it comes as a reminder of past dreams. Other times, through new desires or visions placed in your heart. He will begin to position you where you need to be, give you the grace to handle it, and connect you with your tribe—people who think like you, grow like you, and push you forward.
Don’t wander through life aimlessly. There is more to living than just surviving. Find your purpose.
Everyone is born with one, uniquely designed by God. And it’s never too late to begin. Start now.
May this year be filled with purpose, clarity, direction, and the grace to fulfill it.
Happy New Year.
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